Thursday, May 8, 2008

Ringback Tone Fun and being the Third Wheel

Yes, I am that person that when you call me - instead of a ring, you will hear "Please enjoy the music, while your party is reached: insert song of choice"

I love it and it annoys people on so many levels -- haha anyway I just found the most perfect song for how I am feeling these days about guys: "The More Boys I Meet" by Carrie Underwood
http://www.last.fm/music/Carrie+Underwood/_/The+More+Boys+I+Meet

basically the more boys she meets, the more she loves her dog. HA - so appropriate.

While I do like being single right now, the one big thing that annoys the living hell out of me is being the third wheel and my friends who have significant others that control their every move. Last Friday, I was the flipping third wheel - and apparently my San Francisco trip isn't going to be as fun now, because it appears only one of my friends is coming to visit me. Ya know why? Because she is single. I am just annoyed, I have never let a guy rule my world. I like my space and I know some of you are probably thinking ("No wonder she is single.") - nope thats not it.

So, I guess for 3 of the 4 weekends I will be in SF - I will hanging with myself. Kind of sucks, but whatever............

4 comments:

I have thoughts said...

I've been dating or married to my wife since the first grade picnic so maybe I'm a bit biased, but it's not always that one person is ruling the other (and when it does happen, in my experience, it's usually the woman doing the ruling.) I mean you sort of commit to that person and spending time with them takes a huge chunk of your time. So maybe your friends aren't being ruled, just good boyfriends/husbands or girlfriends/wives.

Then again, I'm stupid so don't listen to me at all.

Wendy said...
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Capitol Hill 20210 said...

Interesting perspective, thanks for your opinion, and you aren't stupid.
:-)

Shannon said...

If anything, liking your space reels the boys in. Not being clingy? Having a mind of your own? Hot. Totally hot.

I will admit to having pulled a "I don't know what my plans are yet, I have to check in with my boyfriend" this week. In all fairness, he was on a boat somewhere and couldn't be reached. So maybe all your friends' boyfriends were off on a boat together with my boyfriend.